Prioritizing Time

Which matters more: Time or money?

Many of us would go with the first option. But we have a strange way of showing it.

In reality, we tend to put our bank accounts first. We know that money is a finite resource and live within our means.

Yet, we fail to treat time with the same care.

We overload our schedules, meet our obligations with haste and act as if there’s no tomorrow.

All to earn more money, more accomplishments or more prestige.

It’s as if we consider time to be a maximizable asset. Something that can provide us an outstanding return on our investment if we play our cards right.

After all, we can’t pay for a burger with time. Or buy our dream house with it. So why not leverage time the most efficient way we can?

But thinking this way is a fool’s errand.

After all, time is not something that can be sped up. Or slowed down. Or packed and stacked to meet our agenda.

It moves at a constant rate.

Like the dripping of a faucet, that tick-tick-tick of the clock is relentless in its consistency. Always headed forward, but never in a hurry to get there.

Yes, it turns out time is the most finite form of currency there is.

Once a moment is gone, it can’t be recovered. Its only remnants lie in the banks of our memory. But the passage of time can cruelly take back those memories from us.

And of course, our existence itself is finite. Our hourglass will run out of sand someday. Yet, the tick-tick-tick of the clock, the rising and setting of the sun — those patterns will continue on.

Maybe that’s what terrifies us.

The lack of power and control. The inability to have final say over our destiny.

Perhaps this is why we feel we must dice up time like a tomato. Even if it’s better to mold time like a ball of clay.

Perhaps this is why we live in micromoments, run ourselves ragged for 19 hours a day, and become slaves to our email inboxes and phone calendars.

Perhaps this is why we continually race that tick-tick-tick of the clock, as if it’s Mario Andretti at the Indy 500.

All this running around might keep us stimulated. It might keep our cash balances replenished. It might help us get on the fast track to bettering our situation.

But there are significant tradeoffs for these outcomes.

When we run ourselves ragged, fatigue becomes normalized. Our attention spans erode. And regret eats away at us like a cancer.

This behavior doesn’t help us make the most of our life. It destroys it in the most brutal and calculating of ways.

The hour has come to end this destructive cycle. To give time the priority it deserves.

The hour has come to view time as a gift that’s given. Not a resource to be mined into oblivion.

The hour has come to value time more than money. Or any other factors competing for our attention.

We might lose some productivity when we commit to this shift in thinking. But that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

By prioritizing time, we gain freedom and fulfillment.

And that’s certainly worth striving for.

Slowing the Pace

Time…why you punish me?”

Those lyrics from Hootie & the Blowfish hit the radio about two decades ago, but it seems they were far ahead of their time.

We live our lives at a breakneck pace today — the result of both innovation and the shifting of cultural norms. With the Internet in our pockets and with TV screens we can control with our voice, our days are now made up of hundreds of moments — Micromoments, as Google calls them. Attention is a precious commodity that mass media, marketing and entertainment professionals work tirelessly to capture; Attention Deficit Disorder has gone from a diagnosable problem to an acceptable condition.

To paraphrase Queen, “We want it all, and we want it now.

But in the race to jam pack our lives with as much as we can, we’re leaving something valuable in the dust.

Meaningfulness.

Our development, both individually and as a society, depends on our ability to interpret meaning in what we do. This important process is a deliberate one, one that can’t be squeezed into the 24/7 circus we put ourselves through these days.

Simply put, the last viral thing we watched, the last rapid-fire experience we took on — it won’t resonate with us for long. Heck, we might not even remember it tomorrow.

So, while the modern-day lifestyle habits satiate our childish needs for “more, more, more” — and keep us away from the cultural stigma of FOMO — they also suffocate our ability to unpack what we expose ourselves to and use that newfound knowledge in a productive manner.

Without meaningfulness, we’re less balanced, less empowered, less smart. The race to the bottom intensifies.

But we can end this self-deprecating cycle.

It’s time we slow down the pace.

It’s time we take a moment to think, to fully digest all that we experience.

It’s time we consider the impact of what we do, and whether there is one in the first place.

It’s time we embrace moments of silent thought, enjoying the life unplugged the way we did in the days when the Macarena was a hit.

It’s time we commit ourselves to the pursuits that matter.

Only after we find this balance of pace and infotainment access will the world truly be at our fingertips.